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Empower Black Families

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Our ancestors/families have survived a lot; segregation, and discrimination. The systems put into place (or not) was never designed to help us get ahead. It was designed to keep us “just getting by”. If we want more for ourselves and our children, we have to start thinking beyond assistance and move towards independence.

Every step that we make towards home ownership, building black-owned businesses, getting an education, and building wealth, is a step towards leaving something behind for our children so they do not have to struggle. For example, most of us were never taught how to be financially stable. When we do come into money, the first thing we do is buy materialistic things (nice car, brand name clothes, etc.) which have no real value. Yet, we have no life insurance policies, no 401k, and have to make gofundme pages to help with funeral expenses, etc. We have to change this mindset.

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Part 4: The Invitation

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Breaking cycles is not a single moment. It is a series of quiet choices, made again and again. It looks like pausing before we repeat what was familiar. Like choosing understanding over silence. Like learning that strength does not require suffering.

For many of us, the most radical act is not confrontation, it is reflection. It is asking different questions. Not “Why did this happen to me?” But “What do I want to pass on?” Because what we leave behind is not only what we escape. It is what we teach.

Healing does not erase the past. It gives us language for it. And language gives us choice. Choice to speak, or not. Choice to forgive, or to set boundaries. Choice to love without losing ourselves.

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Part 3: Breaking the Silence Without Breaking Ourselves

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Breaking generational cycles doesn’t begin with confrontation. It begins with clarity.

For many of us, silence was never about denial. It was about survival. About protecting family. About keeping the peace, even when it cost us our own. But there comes a point when silence stops protecting us. And starts protecting the harm.

Healing does not require exposure. It does not require reliving every painful detail. And it does not require abandoning faith, culture, or family. It requires honesty, with boundaries.

One of the most misunderstood parts of healing is forgiveness. Forgiveness is often rushed. Weaponized. Used to bypass accountability. But forgiveness was never meant to excuse harm.

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Part 2: What We Inherited; The Generational Loop

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Trauma doesn’t always announce itself. More often, it repeats.

When pain goes unaddressed, it doesn’t disappear.
It gets reshaped.
It becomes behavior.
It becomes belief.
It becomes family culture.

In many Black families, survival is passed down as wisdom.
“Be strong.”
“Don’t tell our business.”
“Pray about it.”
“You’ll be alright.”

And sometimes, those words helped us endure.
But endurance is not the same as healing.

Children raised in silence learn to read emotion instead of language. They learn to anticipate instead of ask.
They learn responsibility long before they learn safety.

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Part 1: What We Inherited: When Survival Becomes Normal.

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When you grow up in survival, you don’t call it trauma. You call it life. You learn how to read rooms. How to stay quiet. How to adapt.

In many Black households, especially ones shaped by faith and tradition, survival is praised. Endurance is celebrated, and questioning pain is often seen as weakness. So we learn early not to ask why. We learn how to function, even when something inside us is breaking.

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What We Inherited: Introduction

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This is a four-part series called What We Inherited: A Story of Survival, Forgiveness, and Generational Healing.

In many Black households, especially in the South, we are taught early how to endure. We pray. We keep moving. We don’t talk about what happens behind closed doors.

Silence is often framed as strength. Forgiveness is often framed as duty. And survival becomes so normal that we stop asking what it’s costing us.

I grew up inside that silence. Not because my family didn’t love me, but because pain, especially in Black families, is often inherited rather than discussed.

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Inside Kupfrian Manor: How Disaster Funds, Tax Credits, and Hidden LLC’s Built a Senior Project They Can’t Afford.

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The agenda for Kupfrian Manor is on the City Council Agenda Conference, where there is no open forum, no presentation and no hearing required. Meaning this project, which uses $700,000 in federal CDBG funds, is being pushed through without public explanation.

Developer Pattern: How The Paces Foundation Builds in Escambia County

PACE Foundation has developed multiple senior housing projects in Escambia County, including Brownsville Manor and the upcoming Kupfrian Manor. They use the same development model in every project: layered LLCs, LIHTC financing, out-of-state ownership, and heavy use of federal subsidies. Projects are presented as ‘community-based,’ but ownership, profit, and control flow back to Georgia.

They use wood-frame construction even for multi-story senior housing in hurricane-prone Florida. Wood-frame homes are also pose fire safety risks, water damage and mold, pest and termite infestations and noise and privacy problems

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“The City Pretends. Pensacola News Journal Prints, But the Paper Trail Doesn’t Lie”.

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While Pensacola News Journal posts early morning articles and social media teasers with”breaking updates’ on the redevelopment of the old Baptist Hospital site, the community most impacted by this redevelopment is always the last to know. And the paper trail shows why.

City procurement records show that Bayou District Consulting, LLC had long been on the radar.
2023–2024: Private meetings, tours, and planning discussions occurred behind closed doors. These steps were taken long before any RFP process was publicly announced.

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Why Fear Can’t Lead Us…

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Fear has always been the weapon used to keep our people quiet. In earlier times, it showed up as threats, chains, and laws that said we couldn’t speak or learn.

Today it shows up in silence; in jobs we might lose, positions we might offend, or looks that tell us to “wait our turn.” But waiting has cost us enough.

At every council meeting, in every vote, and in every plan written about our neighborhoods, fear keeps too many good people from saying what they already know is wrong.

That’s where the community must step in. Our voices are not tied to political seats or salaries; they’re tied to truth, history, and the generations coming after us.

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We Deserve Answers; City of Pensacola, CRA/Council…

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Over the past several days, multiple documents, land records, bond filings, and meeting archives revealed that major decisions about the redevelopment of the former Baptist Hospital campus have NOT been happening at the CRA or Pensacola City Council meetings like the public was led to believe.

Instead, many key decisions, including financing, project details, developer partnerships, and public hearings, have been happening through a different board entirely.

ECHFA (Escambia County Housing Finance Authority)

YES, there is another governing body involved.

YES, they hold their own meetings.

YES, several meetings were held recently about the proposed developments on the Baptist campus.

What the public wasnt told.

The developer connected to the Baptist property (Paces Foundation / Soho Partners) also operates under multiple names:

Paces Preservation Partners

The Paces Foundation, Inc.

Soho Housing Partners

Avery Place Apartments LLC

Kupfrian Manor LLC

This makes it VERY difficult for the average resident to track what is happening. ECHFA held public hearings on these projects, without the CRA or City openly announcing them.

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What the Records Tell Us:

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Why the Family May Have Sold, and How We Can Stop It from Happening Again

For decades, the property at 1102 Dr. Martin Luther King Jr Drive sat in the hands of the
Crumbsby family. It was heir property, land passed down through generations, once representing stability and pride. But by 2018, after years of probate proceedings and out-of-state heirs, the family sold both lots for $14,250.

Today, those same parcels hold newly built “twin” homes that sold for more than $400,000 each, and property taxes that used to be a few hundred dollars have soared to nearly $5,000 a year.
The records suggest the heirs’ decision wasn’t about greed, it was about pressure and distance.

The original owner had passed away, leaving several relatives scattered across different states. Maintaining a vacant lot from hundreds of miles away, paying yearly taxes, and navigating legal paperwork was likely overwhelming. Add in a developer’s offer of quick cash, before the family could realize what was coming to the neighborhood, and the sale became almost inevitable.

Once that land left the family’s hands, so did a piece of their legacy. The return on that $14,000 sale is now reaping profits for developers, not descendants. What was once affordable, Black-owned ground is now part of a new wave of redevelopment that few of the original families can afford to return to.

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