Our Legacy: Why We Must Rise and Heal Together.

Community Blueprint Series | Part 1 of 8 

Over the next several weeks, Empower Black Families will be sharing an eight-part Community Blueprint Series focused on rebuilding stronger families, stronger neighborhoods, and a stronger future for our communities. This is Part 1. 

Look around our blocks. From Brownsville, Wedgewood, and Ensley to Morris Court, Attucks Court, Englewood, and beyond, our roots run deep. We have carried generations on our backs. We have survived historic redlining, bulldozers, forced disinvestment, and political silence. 

However, if we are completely honest with ourselves, the external systems aren’t the only things holding us back.  

Our communities have remained splintered for generations, but that division didn’t happen by accident. It is rooted in systems dating back to slavery that were designed to keep us disconnected so we could never pool our power. For too long, we’ve allowed that division, and the “crabs in a bucket” mentality to keep us from building together. Every time we pull one another down, we weaken our own community. 

This starts with accountability. And that includes me, too. None of us are above putting in the work, and none of us can do this alone. If we want our neighborhoods to change, the healing must start from the inside out. 

Rebuilding Our Village: Bring Back the Barter System

We don’t need to wait on a corporate grocery store, or a county/city grant to start looking out for one another. If you see your neighbor struggling, step in. We need to bring back our “it takes a village” mentality and utilize our own internal barter system: 

  • If an elderly neighbor’s grass is overgrown, cut their yard. 
  • If a single mother is working late, fix a home-cooked meal for her children. 
  • If a neighbor’s roof is leaking or plumbing is failing, lend a hand and/or your tools. 
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Skin Color is Not a Shield 

Oldest member of a FERA adult education class.
Booker T. Washington High School *See Note*
Pensacola, Florida.

She did not endure segregation, exclusion, and hardship so future generations would settle for symbolic representation.

This is something I’ve always had to deal with when calling someone out with the same skin color as me. When I’ve been asked how I can challenge another Black leader, let me ask you this; especially if you were born and raised here and remember that what you see today, is not how it was when we were growing up.  

Would District 3 be what you see today, if the elected commissioner had been held accountable for the disinvestment that exists today? District 3 is statistically facing the most severe, concentrated economic disinvestment in our community.  

This is an article posted on the WEAR3 website in 2018, where Commissioner May talks about the issues in his district. Click the link to read the article: Escambia County Commissioners address pockets of poverty 

When I met with Commissioner May to discuss some issues, I brought up this article and asked why conditions were/are the same 8 years later. Suddenly, I’m there to be antagonistic. I could see where the meeting was heading, so I walked out. 

I understand that being the sole Black voice on a five-member board is an incredibly heavy and isolating burden. I extend real grace to the battles he has to fight on that dais. Whether it’s dealing with the county or the city, we’re up against the “good ole boy” system, old money, influential families, etc. here in Pensacola. But being outnumbered inside the building means you must mobilize the community outside the building.

Moving on… 

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Part 4: The Invitation

Breaking cycles is not a single moment. It is a series of quiet choices, made again and again. It looks like pausing before we repeat what was familiar. Like choosing understanding over silence. Like learning that strength does not require suffering.

For many of us, the most radical act is not confrontation, it is reflection. It is asking different questions. Not “Why did this happen to me?” But “What do I want to pass on?” Because what we leave behind is not only what we escape. It is what we teach.

Healing does not erase the past. It gives us language for it. And language gives us choice. Choice to speak, or not. Choice to forgive, or to set boundaries. Choice to love without losing ourselves.

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Part 3: Breaking the Silence Without Breaking Ourselves

Breaking generational cycles doesn’t begin with confrontation. It begins with clarity.

For many of us, silence was never about denial. It was about survival. About protecting family. About keeping the peace, even when it cost us our own. But there comes a point when silence stops protecting us. And starts protecting the harm.

Healing does not require exposure. It does not require reliving every painful detail. And it does not require abandoning faith, culture, or family. It requires honesty, with boundaries.

One of the most misunderstood parts of healing is forgiveness. Forgiveness is often rushed. Weaponized. Used to bypass accountability. But forgiveness was never meant to excuse harm.

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Part 2: What We Inherited; The Generational Loop

Trauma doesn’t always announce itself. More often, it repeats.

When pain goes unaddressed, it doesn’t disappear.
It gets reshaped.
It becomes behavior.
It becomes belief.
It becomes family culture.

In many Black families, survival is passed down as wisdom.
“Be strong.”
“Don’t tell our business.”
“Pray about it.”
“You’ll be alright.”

And sometimes, those words helped us endure.
But endurance is not the same as healing.

Children raised in silence learn to read emotion instead of language. They learn to anticipate instead of ask.
They learn responsibility long before they learn safety.

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Part 1: What We Inherited: When Survival Becomes Normal.

When you grow up in survival, you don’t call it trauma. You call it life. You learn how to read rooms. How to stay quiet. How to adapt.

In many Black households, especially ones shaped by faith and tradition, survival is praised. Endurance is celebrated, and questioning pain is often seen as weakness. So we learn early not to ask why. We learn how to function, even when something inside us is breaking.

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Inside Kupfrian Manor: How Disaster Funds, Tax Credits, and Hidden LLC’s Built a Senior Project They Can’t Afford.

The agenda for Kupfrian Manor is on the City Council Agenda Conference, where there is no open forum, no presentation and no hearing required. Meaning this project, which uses $700,000 in federal CDBG funds, is being pushed through without public explanation.

Developer Pattern: How The Paces Foundation Builds in Escambia County

PACE Foundation has developed multiple senior housing projects in Escambia County, including Brownsville Manor and the upcoming Kupfrian Manor. They use the same development model in every project: layered LLCs, LIHTC financing, out-of-state ownership, and heavy use of federal subsidies. Projects are presented as ‘community-based,’ but ownership, profit, and control flow back to Georgia.

They use wood-frame construction even for multi-story senior housing in hurricane-prone Florida. Wood-frame homes are also pose fire safety risks, water damage and mold, pest and termite infestations and noise and privacy problems

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“The City Pretends. Pensacola News Journal Prints, But the Paper Trail Doesn’t Lie”.

While Pensacola News Journal posts early morning articles and social media teasers with”breaking updates’ on the redevelopment of the old Baptist Hospital site, the community most impacted by this redevelopment is always the last to know. And the paper trail shows why.

City procurement records show that Bayou District Consulting, LLC had long been on the radar.
2023–2024: Private meetings, tours, and planning discussions occurred behind closed doors. These steps were taken long before any RFP process was publicly announced.

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Why Fear Can’t Lead Us…

Fear has always been the weapon used to keep our people quiet. In earlier times, it showed up as threats, chains, and laws that said we couldn’t speak or learn.

Today it shows up in silence; in jobs we might lose, positions we might offend, or looks that tell us to “wait our turn.” But waiting has cost us enough.

At every council meeting, in every vote, and in every plan written about our neighborhoods, fear keeps too many good people from saying what they already know is wrong.

That’s where the community must step in. Our voices are not tied to political seats or salaries; they’re tied to truth, history, and the generations coming after us.

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We Deserve Answers; City of Pensacola, CRA/Council…

Over the past several days, multiple documents, land records, bond filings, and meeting archives revealed that major decisions about the redevelopment of the former Baptist Hospital campus have NOT been happening at the CRA or Pensacola City Council meetings like the public was led to believe.

Instead, many key decisions, including financing, project details, developer partnerships, and public hearings, have been happening through a different board entirely.

ECHFA (Escambia County Housing Finance Authority)

YES, there is another governing body involved.

YES, they hold their own meetings.

YES, several meetings were held recently about the proposed developments on the Baptist campus.

What the public wasnt told.

The developer connected to the Baptist property (Paces Foundation / Soho Partners) also operates under multiple names:

Paces Preservation Partners

The Paces Foundation, Inc.

Soho Housing Partners

Avery Place Apartments LLC

Kupfrian Manor LLC

This makes it VERY difficult for the average resident to track what is happening. ECHFA held public hearings on these projects, without the CRA or City openly announcing them.

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